Retrospective Perspective

Tuesday, December 05, 2006

Why I love you...

This weekend I had a tiff that went something like this:

"Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah...you still don't even know WHY you love me!" And I childishly responded "I DO to!" And she responded with the dreaded "Why!" "Tell me why!"

Sidenote: Something that I did learn from my fellow "man" was when in doubt, go hard REAL hard. Lol!

I proceeded to taunt and make note of how it's a dumb ass question and it's purpose is questionable. Yackety smackety...Saying anything to take attention off the fact that I really didn't know why. And not because I couldn't come up with anything, but because I just never thought about it.

And after the storm was over, I began to think...why do I love her and felt bad for never giving her the simple words that she just wanted to hear. Not because they were so great, but because
she just wanted to hear them.

So I actually though about it. And I love her because:

1. She's not afraid to be herself
2. She's not afraid to fight for things she believes in
3. She's a proud person
4. She's strong person
5. She's smart (In a non-geeky way)
6. She's funny
7. She likes music
8. She has spiritual foundation
9. She's versatile
10.She's open minded
11. She has a beauty that shines from the inside out (Very strange)
12. She's emotional
13. She's conscious
14. She knows style
15. She "looks out" for me and my best interest
16. She values family
17. She's not afraid of being wrong
18. She's down fo da cause
19. She sees the beauty in me, when I don't see it in myself
20.She's just a well rounded individual who picks up where I leave off.

I mean...need I say more...

2 Comments:

Blogger DurtyMo said...

It's funny you wrote this because sometimes I'll get the whole "why do u love me" question and there I am looking crazy grasping at straws tryna verbalize why I'm loving him the way that I am. Sometimes own feel like itemizing it or sorting through the whys and what fors..sometimes I just love you because I do and that should be enough! Shoot!

1:56 PM  
Blogger Retrospect said...

*Sigh* You know what Durt, dis love sht is too much fo' me. I feel you...Only list I want to itemized is..a gift list...for ME. Lol!! I'm not a talker, Imma doer. So all that talkin sht does nothing for me, but I guess urbody else feels differently. So I giv'em what they want...Hmpf!

3:23 PM  

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